Accommodating kids at your holiday gathering

Got kids coming to your holiday gathering? Not sure how to accommodate them? Never had kids? Don't worry about the incidentals. Parents will take care of their basic needs. You really don't have to do anything to entertain them, either. Still, it's a nice gesture to provide them with ways to entertain themselves. It's also good to plan ahead for where they will nap, eat and play.

Designate a quiet room for naps.

Babies and small children might get sleepy at holiday gatherings. Some might not be used to the noise of multiple family members and friends. Holidays are so exciting for young kids. Sometimes they go into overload. Choose a space that's calm, quiet and uncluttered for kids to nap in. The less there is for them to get into, the better.

Small kids need small furniture.

If you can borrow a kid sized table and chairs for holiday dinner, take advantage of that. If you can't, try to find objects that can be used as booster seats. We used to use phone books, when phone books were larger. Pillows will work too. Don't worry about the babies. Parents will likely bring something they can use to sit in while they are fed.

Most young kids like coloring books.

They're cheap, simple entertainment. Don't forget the crayons. Older kids might like to play some board games. If you have a video game system, kids will be more than happy to use it. Consider setting up a separate room so they don't disturb adult conversation with noisy play.

Outdoor play let's kids burn off energy.

What's Thanksgiving without a game of touch football? Snowmen, snow forts and snowball fights can keep kids busy for hours on Christmas. When adults join in, it's even more fun. Make sure there's plenty of hot cocoa on hand to warm big and little tummies after adventures in the snow.

After dinner, keep kids busy with holiday crafts.

Check craft stores for seasonal kids craft kits if you're not sure what to buy. If a lot of kids are coming to your holiday gathering, buy kits with multiple projects. We usually use a craft paper "tablecloth" on the kid's table. Handing out washable markers before dinner keeps them occupied while they're waiting for dessert.